Many people are
surprised when finally the pair of actor and actress who seemed ideal-Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes
divorced. Next question, how the psychological development of their children
after divorce -Suri Cruise?
The little girl aged 6 years it has virtually become a 'star' because she always attracts attention wherever go public. She is mentioned as kid of the most hunted by the photographer, even though she had not yet be a photo model in the real sense. Suri is cute, pretty, attractive, and in due course her parents are famous movie star.
Before the divorce happens, a lot of people think how fortunate Suri as a child. Conversely, when her parents chosen divorce, feels like lightning in broad daylight. How unfortunate and sorry for Suri Cruise. After all, divorce is often bad for children? Who are the most victimized of divorced parents, especially given the still relatively young Suri of course still need parental support and affection.
The little girl aged 6 years it has virtually become a 'star' because she always attracts attention wherever go public. She is mentioned as kid of the most hunted by the photographer, even though she had not yet be a photo model in the real sense. Suri is cute, pretty, attractive, and in due course her parents are famous movie star.
Before the divorce happens, a lot of people think how fortunate Suri as a child. Conversely, when her parents chosen divorce, feels like lightning in broad daylight. How unfortunate and sorry for Suri Cruise. After all, divorce is often bad for children? Who are the most victimized of divorced parents, especially given the still relatively young Suri of course still need parental support and affection.
Based on the literature of psychology, psychological effects of divorce on
children apparently varies. There are many factors that affect how the impact
of divorce on children. Among them are the age and stage of their psychological
development when divorce occurs, the child's view of marriage parents, as well
as a sense of security in the family.
It is not always a negative impact of divorce on children. Because the condition of household full of conflict, even without the divorce, can also have a negative impact on children. When divorce occurs when the child was a child, then the child has not had a rational view of marriage parents. When later the child becomes a teenager, she was not too remembered conflicts experienced by parents in the family first. However, the crucial factor is how parents can still provide care, love and security. When these crucial factors are met, children can still be fine.
However, if these are not met, it will adversely affect the child psychologically. When a divorce occurs when the child is still small, probably one of the parents is a father or mother does not live with her anymore. Children will feel lost, incomplete, and harbored a deep longing. If the parents are no longer being too close to the child, the role and position as a parent is no longer perceived by the child or disappear altogether.
Admittedly, children who come from divorced parents often have different psychological conditions than children from intact parental marriage. Children from divorced families often feel insecure, angry at themselves and the environment, a dissident, or even apathetic and withdraw from society. Children can lose confidence and fear of closeness to the opposite sex.
Seeing the case of Suri Cruise, chances are she is going to have a condition that is not easy. Suri would often ask her mother why her father is no longer living together. She will often have to hold longs to meet her father, because it no longer met every day. Financially, Suri was lucky because her father gave allowances $ 400 thousand per year until the age of 18 years old Suri.
Suri will still get care, love and reassurance from his mother, Katie Holmes, who live together and take care of her. A crucial factor for Suri is the father factor. Because, she would be separated from her father, and no longer have a father figure intact in their daily lives. When her mother later remarried, crucial factor is whether the new person can be a good father figure for Suri?
It is not always a negative impact of divorce on children. Because the condition of household full of conflict, even without the divorce, can also have a negative impact on children. When divorce occurs when the child was a child, then the child has not had a rational view of marriage parents. When later the child becomes a teenager, she was not too remembered conflicts experienced by parents in the family first. However, the crucial factor is how parents can still provide care, love and security. When these crucial factors are met, children can still be fine.
However, if these are not met, it will adversely affect the child psychologically. When a divorce occurs when the child is still small, probably one of the parents is a father or mother does not live with her anymore. Children will feel lost, incomplete, and harbored a deep longing. If the parents are no longer being too close to the child, the role and position as a parent is no longer perceived by the child or disappear altogether.
Admittedly, children who come from divorced parents often have different psychological conditions than children from intact parental marriage. Children from divorced families often feel insecure, angry at themselves and the environment, a dissident, or even apathetic and withdraw from society. Children can lose confidence and fear of closeness to the opposite sex.
Seeing the case of Suri Cruise, chances are she is going to have a condition that is not easy. Suri would often ask her mother why her father is no longer living together. She will often have to hold longs to meet her father, because it no longer met every day. Financially, Suri was lucky because her father gave allowances $ 400 thousand per year until the age of 18 years old Suri.
Suri will still get care, love and reassurance from his mother, Katie Holmes, who live together and take care of her. A crucial factor for Suri is the father factor. Because, she would be separated from her father, and no longer have a father figure intact in their daily lives. When her mother later remarried, crucial factor is whether the new person can be a good father figure for Suri?
So, what about the psychological impact of divorce on Suri is highly dependent on her parents wisdom. Bethink Suri just 6 years old, both father and mother should continue to prove that divorce does not change the love and security for Suri. It's good for the psychological development for their daughter.
